The past couple of weeks have been great! Josh graduated (finally!) hooray!, my family got to spend some quality time with his family which was nice.
I am very glad that my parents are so supportive of me and try to just accept my life and who I am.
Christmas was fun. I got a typewriter! Josh knows my fascination with typewriters and bought one from his grandmother who wanted him to help her sell it on e-bay. I am very glad to have this typewriter because they are such a sweet family and it's nice to have something of history (and in amazing condition with the original booklets!). Played a lot with Luke, helped Josh clean/pack some, visited with friends. One of our previous exchange students from high school came to visit from Italy with her boyfriend so it was really nice spending some time with them as well.
I learned a lot about myself at the end of 2012.
I love my family and I now have a better understanding of our past and how much they sacrificed for me and invested in me. I am thankful for all they have done, thankful that they persevered despite all odds to stay in this country even when it looked like there were no more options and no more hope. I am very grateful to be here in this amazing country. Without the hard work of my parents I would not be where I am today. I would not have met such amazing people, had such great experiences, and start such an amazing career!
I learned that there are specific aspects of my personality that I can directly see come from my parents.
From my father I have my sense of urgency towards striving to be the best, innovation, curiosity, and thirst for knowledge about anything and everything. From my mother I get my spirit, stubbornness to go against all odds and against doubts from others, my empathy and sympathy towards others, love of the outdoors, and fearlessness (excluding those really irrational but few fears I have). From both my parents I have inherited a strong work ethic, a moral compass, an appreciation for what I have, faith in others, and goals to have a purpose in life and make a difference -- to look beyond myself, beyond the present, and to push forward.
So...news...
Josh moved in yesterday. He and Molly were really worn out (I wouldn't blame him, he's had a rough many many weeks/months and deserved much needed break!) so we didn't really go out for New Years Eve. We did make a field trip to Liquor Barn though. That place is so huge! and overwhelming! We came back with some delicious sparkling wine. It is gone.
I am very grateful for Josh and look forward for our future. I know that we are not here together, living together, out of just convenience. We work well together. We complement each other - in lifestyle, skills, interests, personality. Complement does not necessarily mean in common. But there are things that one is good at/interested in that the other is not. And we are both interested in a lot of things and are actually handy/good at a lot of things that when they are combined... it makes me feel like there is nothing we cannot do together. I have faith in him and hope to do whatever I can to encourage him to pursue his dreams because unlike most people i know, he is unusual in the amount of passion he has for life, he has such aspirations and has such a work ethic that I believe he can get to wherever he wants to go. Even though there are a lot of things he wants to do, I am glad that he has so many options of what he wants/likes to do. He is very fortunate in that sense. I can't say that I am like that myself, have specific careers I've wanted with such passion. Hoping that in 2013 we will continue to support, love, encourage each other, work together, and move forward!
Here's to an exciting and meaningful 2013 of growth and new experiences! Here's to adventure! Welcome 2013!